《飘》想

 <gone with the wind>.才读了开头几章，捕捉到一段对白，很有味道分享一下。当思嘉﹒奥哈拉得知阿希礼决定要娶梅兰妮消息的时候，思嘉﹒奥哈拉和阿希礼的一段对白。

阿希礼：”亲爱的，你如此年轻，缺乏考虑，你不知道婚姻意味着什么。”

“我知道我爱你。”

“Love isn’t enough to make a successful marriage when two people are as different as we are. You would want all of a man , Scarlett, his heart, his soul, his thoughts. And if you did not have them, you would be miserable. And I could not want all of your mind and your soul. And you would be hurt, and then you would come to hate me-how bitterly! You would hate the books I read and the music I loved, because they took me away from you even for a moment. And I –perhaps I ”

思嘉﹒奥哈拉:”Do you love her?”

“She is like me, part of my blood, and we understand each other. Scarlett! can’t I make you see that a marriage can’t go on  in any sort of peace unless the two people are alike?”

Someone else had said that :”like must marry like or there’ll be no happiness, ”who was it? It seemed a million years since she had heard that, but it still did not make sense. ”

    虽然只看了几章，理解还不是很深入，但这段话让我产生了共鸣。对于婚姻到底意味着什么，我想只有看完这本名著，从所刻述人物的历程中可能会找到支离片甲，也许才会有更透陈的领悟。“没有经历过就没有发言权”，这句话有道理，同样没有看完，对于作者的理解也不会认识，这仅是自己的一点薄见而已。

同时也自省，在知识的海洋里，我想我只是那漂浮不定的尘埃吧，试图去追寻已错过的栖点，努力补救着丢失的things。。。。。。。